Thursday, 21 August 2008

WHERE IS LAGBAJA?




















My first encounter with Lagbaja’s music was with his self-titled album “Lagbaja!” in 1994. The deep lyrics of songs such as “Side by side”, “Naija must sweet again” got to me and other songs from subsequent albums – “Coolu Temper” and the triple album – really got me addicted to the phenomenon called Lagbaja. So much was this addiction that I wrote my final project in school (to the chagrin of my supervisor who still gave me an ‘A’ anyway) on how Lagbaja’s audience perceives his music which I find really stimulating intellectually.

Apart from a few songs from his last album, I pride myself on knowing all of Lagbaja’s songs. Like most Lagbaja addicts (I know more than a few), I have been to ‘Motherlan’ on Opebi in Ikeja, Lagos where Lagbaja plays every other last Friday of the month. Lagbaja has not played in Motherlan for sometime now and when I visited the place a few months back to purchase some of his CDs, there was no one in sight. A visit to his official website
www.lagbaja.com has also yielded no result. Hence the question: where is Lagbaja? If like me you are also wondering and waiting for answers, then I suggest you seek solace in this never-been-published incisive interview I had with Lagbaja a few years back in Motherlan. He talked about the Lagbaja concept, his music, aspirations and pertinent issues like corruption, slavery, reparation and so on. Enjoy!

This is a beautiful mask you have on. Who designs them?
I design some of them myself. Right now I’m looking for a new designer. The last time I had a designer was 1994. But for the past few years, I have been doing the designs myself. You know this is Africa and the fabrics abound. All one needs to do is to get the right fabric and do the designing.


What inspires your designs?
I’m inspired mostly by what I see in the society. And again, because of the arts, there are some things that are very important. The most important thing is the voice. The voice has to be clear. But the mask is a great hindrance to voice clarity. It muffles the voice. If I pull this back a little bit, you will hear me a bit clearer. This has to do with acoustics. The mask has to be designed in a way that, although the face is covered, the voice is clear so I don’t sing distorted. I’ve got to be able to hear myself on stage; so the ears have to be open. The challenge is in being able to design a mask that covers the face as it should be, is very secured, comfortable so I can wear it for hours and at the same time gives room for good acoustics and for me to hear. That’s the basic thing. The rest is aesthetics.

I’ve heard you reiterate severally that anyone could be behind the mask as Lagbaja. Right?
Anybody because Lagbaja is anybody.

Irrespective of who is behind the mask, what is the personality of Lagbaja?
First the message has to stay the same. And this has mostly to do with social political commentary awareness songs. The personality has to be able to project what Lagbaja stands for by his act. In a nutshell, I’ll say that is the basic thing. The next thing is the quality of musicianship. If he’s a singer, he has to b a good singer. Lagbaja could be a guitarist; he has to be a good guitarist. Whatever he does, he has to do to the best of his ability. That is the basic in terms of performance. Everything else…anything…anybody…you know…he could be short, he could be you know…a bit ‘orobo’ (big) like you. He could be tall.

What does Lagbaja stand for musically?
Two things variably. One is deep messages. I have to say something to the soul of my listeners. The other is simple entertainment. To make them happy, take away their sorrows for the time that they are listening to my music. They are two almost extreme ends. I project both very important functions with my music.
You made ‘Lagbaja!’ in 1994, ‘Coolu Temper’ in 1996, why did it take you five years to release another album?
I’m never in a hurry to release albums. But I’m always documenting my works. A release is just marketing a product. I’ve been recording some songs since 1999 and they didn’t make the last album releases we had. There are songs that didn’t make the album but they are still there because I’m always recording. They might make the next album or the next set of albums. And when that happens people might wonder…three years! Four years! But it doesn’t matter to me. The most important thing is that I still find time to document my works and when it’s time to bring them out for people to listen to, that’s the marketing aspect of it. So I would say it is sales and marketing that determine the timing of release. But I’m always documenting even when nothing is in the market. Another reason is that there is really no encouragement for releasing albums in this country because it’s really creating market for pirates more or less because they make all the money. So one is not eager to do anything.



A lot of your songs address societal ills. How do you think you songs can make the right impact in the society?
That’s a tough one to answer. The best I can do is express myself. There are many possibilities. One aspect of it is in terms of class strata…the easiest so far has been on the masses. But the more difficult one which actually can lead to the bigger impact is to access the mind of the ruling class…the leaders. Sometimes I do songs that are specifically written for them. Like ‘A o m’erin j’oba’ (we’ll make the elephant king) is telling the leaders a very serious message. A song like ‘Bad leadership’ is also directed at them. But then, you have songs that could mean different things to different people. That’s one way. Another way is through performance of the songs. We get to perform a lot at some kind of exclusive functions where you have so called ‘big men’…politicians and in the days of the military, sometimes military leaders. Usually our employer might not be happy with the singing of those songs, but I think by and large, they have come to accept that it’s just a part of Lagbaja. A third aspect of it which I’ve not had enough of is with the student population. They constitute a large chunk of our fans but we have not been playing much on campuses because of the ups and downs; the evils you know…cultism and the like. But we’ll love to do more of campus shows. The few we’ve done, I’ve been able to break in the middle of the show and talked. It’s not yabis now. It’s talk. The nearest thing to it probably will be like to go to church and listen to some kind of message. It’s more to do with ‘the person’ rather than some yabis targeted at so called ‘government people’ ruining the country. I talk to them like some self-help thing from what I know and understand about life. I communicate with them and hope that some couple of guys in the audience will go home with something that’s going to change their lives for better. But it’s not church because we don’t call anybody to the altar. But the nearest thing to it is church because it is motivational. Those are the forms we use in communicating the serious messages. The fun songs need no serious communication. You hear them and you move and that works.



I know two young people who go by the name Lagbaja for different reasons. Do you see yourself as a role model to younger people?
Even if I don’t see myself as one, as long as you are a public figure and you are in the arts, you know…playing music, there is no way you will not affect the lives of other people. So in a way, you could say a role model. I can’t help it but I just hope to be a positive role model.

Was there ever a time you felt like being identified as yourself and not the guy behind the mask?
No! But I’ve felt a little bit bad at times when I want to interact me with people and somehow, something about the mask doesn’t project friendliness. This happens a lot when I perform at festivals with other African musicians. They believe I must be some sort of monk or holy man that they can only talk to me with reverence. They really can’t hug me. I hug them, they are surprised. You know…they are a bit reluctant but they want to know about me. The mask sometimes makes fast, easy communication, and friendliness a bit slower.

How spiritual is Lagbaja?
The whole of life is about being spiritual. If you appreciate that the most powerful part of creation has three beings, then you will know that the physical being is under the influence of what happens in the spirit. I think anybody who appreciates that won’t help but be spiritual.



Do you go to church, mosque?
Lagbaja no dey go anywhere. Lagbaja is Lagbaja. But the guys wey dey behind Lagbaja, dem dey go church o.

Are you fulfilled with the acceptance of your music?
I’m happy with it. I have a long way to go. I have a big dream. As far as I’m concerned, I’m nowhere right now.

That’s being modest.
I’m serious my sister. I just pray that God gives me the strength and the might. You know…beginners class la wa yi (we are in beginners class). I tell people all the time especially in interviews but they don’t seem to believe me. There is too much hype about African music. The hype is bigger than the reality. We are beginners. We are nowhere. I have a dream and a vision to be in the forefront of having African music as big as any other music from any part of the world.

Where do you see yourself musically in the next ten years?
By the grace of God, I will love to see my music performed and studied by non-Yorubas, non-Nigerians and at large non-Africans. I’ll love to see that happen. If it pleases God, I’ll love to see a situation where there is a real music industry in Nigeria in ten years time. Just a couple of dreams among several dreams. Ten years time and let’s see how things work out.



How rich is Lagbaja?
Rich in spirit, poor in the pocket.

How poor?
Quite poor. So poor he really can’t do all the things he needs to do.

Things like what?
Poverty is relative. My basic needs are met but my vision is beyond my power. It’s beyond what I can afford and the distractions of the country make it impossible for me to concentrate on those things which I find most important. For example, investing money in studio equipment should only happen when one is loaded and can afford it. But for me, it is a necessity just to be able to record some good quality. Those things make it impossible for me to be able to hold on to money. It just passes through…always passing through. K’o ma dabi epe (may it not seem like a curse) but that is the fact. It’s always passing through. You can’t seem to hold it down. But the more one goes, I believe the better it will become. If you are talking about real wealth from music, where do you want to find it? With how many CD sales? When the pirates are selling the bulk of your CDs? When you talk of five million CDs for example in a developing economy, now you are talking. You can afford not to perform fro three years.

Hmmm!
Oh yeah! Five million CDs! Even if you get $1 per CD.

That’s five million Dollars!
Thank you. That’s real wealth. Not to talk about endorsements appearances, live gigs and so on. So we are really beginners here.

Do you see yourself in competition with any artiste?
I am in total competition with Lagbaja and only with Lagbaja. But I am also inspired by the music and success of other artistes. No competition. It doesn’t mean I think I’m superior. No! I just refuse the spirit of rivalry. It is retrogressive. I do my thing to the best of my ability. My goal is to be the best I can be. Always striving to be the best I can be.



In ‘Afrocalypso’, you sang about the enslavement of the bodies of your ancestors. What is your opinion of slavery in Africa?
There is still slavery today. I mean…physical slavery, mental slavery is the worse, economic slavery is the worst of them all. We can only hope that we start to wake up out of this mess. But there is still slavery till today. You read stories of children being taken from their country in boats to other places. That’s slavery! Kids for sale across the border. The only difference between then and now is that there is a connivance of parents and guardians in several cases of the young kids. In those days, it was force and the parents themselves were victims sometimes. The problem has to do with out level of poverty and enlightenment. But apart from that I think mental and economic slavery are bigger. We still depend on the outside world for so many thing things. And you can see the president saying that he’s tired of working with IMF. He wants to disengage. He wants to break the slavery. But instantly they will look for another way. The more we are disarrayed, the happier they are. They are not our friends at all. Everything boils down to selfish ends. It might sound cynical but that’s the fact. But they are not holding us down. They are not stopping us from thinking for ourselves. We are the ones not getting ourselves together. And they are not the ones who will help us out of our physical, mental and economic slavery. We have to work that out ourselves.


Before MKO Abiola died, he was fighting that reparation be paid to Africans. Who do you think should be paid? Is it Africans in Diaspora or Africans in Africa?
All Africans. In Africa, diaspora, everybody. But I think...as a matter of fact, everybody should be paid. They suffered and we suffered too. But we were also guilty too…small you know. But everybody should be paid. It is our money. All you have to do is look at those countries and imagine where the wealth came from. A lot of our wealth has been used to develop their society, but the wealth is unending. There was no oil inlarge quantity till the 70s. It’s new wealth. What have we done with that new wealth even if they took our old wealth away a long time ago? Fighting, corruption, chopping…it’s all crazy. So all that history of giving reparation…sometimes you find it like a terrible cycle. Because you are looking to be repaid, meanwhile you were a part of the problem and you are still creating the same situation today; even a worse situation. So who would pay back the future generation for what we are destroying right now. It’s a knotty issue. But if anyone wants to bring money to pay anybody, it has to be all Africans. Those right here, in Barbados, Trinidad & Tobago, Cuba, Brazil, America, all over the world.

In Nigeria…
Of course!

And including Lagbaja…
Hmm! I will say I have a little of my own reparation because I grew up at a time when we had leaders that had depth. And what they put you through for even basic education is enough reparation for me. There is nothing you can do beyond enlightening a soul and they did that. So it’s not a personal thing. It has more to do with everyone at large.

What scares you most in life?
Scares…scares…scares…the future of the young generation. What will happen after we are gone? I think I am very scared about that. Because right now, I can afford to send my own kids to Stanford, Harvard and Cambridge. What about the average kid? Schools are shut, cultism, lecturers are on strike, no lab equipment, it’s just pass and go, pass and go. So what happens twenty years from now when we keep digging our own graves?

Do you have any regrets so far?
No. Not yet. It think it is normal for regrets to come sometimes, but so far, right now, not yet. But I’m waiting; I’m expecting the day that I’ll say ‘Oh I should have done a different thing.’ But for now, none.

It was nice talking to you.
It’s a pleasure my sister.

Friday, 8 August 2008

ARE YOU A REAL MAN?


THERE IS A WIDE GULF OF DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A BOY, A LESSER MAN AND A REAL MAN.

A REAL MAN IS A GENTLEMAN.

A REAL MAN COURTS A WOMAN PROPERLY.

A REAL MAN KNOWS WHEN A WOMAN MEANS NO AND RESPECTS IT.

A REAL MAN IS NOT AFRAID TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN.

A REAL MAN IS NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT. HE GIVES ALL OF HIMSELF. HE IS TRANSPARENT. HE DOESN’T HOLD BACK.

A REAL MAN LOVES HIS WOMAN WITH HIS BODY. HE DOESN’T CHEAT ON HER.

A REAL MAN HARDLY GOES BACK ON HIS WORD.

A REAL MAN IS ALWAYS A KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR TO A DAMSEL IN DISTRESS.

A REAL MAN PROTECTS HIS WOMAN FROM EXTERNAL INFLUENCES.

A REAL MAN IS FULL OF WISDOM. HE KNOWS WHEN TO TALK AND WHEN NOT TO.

A REAL MAN NOT ONLY HEARS, HE LISTENS BEYOND THE WORDS BEING SPOKEN.

A REAL MAN NOT ONLY LOOKS, HE SEES.

A REAL MAN IS SENSITIVE.

A REAL MAN IS NOT AFRAID TO BE VULNERABLE. HE CRIES IF HE HAS TO AND DOESN’T SEE IT AS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS.

A REAL MAN IS NOT AFRAID TO EXPRESS HIS FEARS.

A REAL MAN WATCHES OUT FOR HIS FAMILY AND MEETS THEIR NEEDS TO THE BEST OF HIS ABILITY.

A REAL MAN LEAVES AN INHERITANCE FOR HIS CHILDREN AND HIS CHILDREN’S CHILDREN.

FINALLY AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, A REAL MAN LOVES THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND DERIVES HIS WORTH AND VALUE FROM HIM.

WHAT ARE YOU? A BOY? A LESSER MAN? OR A REAL MAN?

DEION SANDERS' STORY

Deion Sanders is an extremely talented African-American athlete who plays baseball, basketball, football and also does stuff on the tracks. Ever since he turned pro in 1989, Deion Sanders has been known as “Prime Time”, the hottest defensive back in the American National Football League and a base-stealing sensation in Major League Baseball. He is the only athlete in history to play both a World Series and a Super Bowl. By the age of twenty-five, Deion was already at the top of his game, but he was desperate for something more. Still pursuing his dreams, he cut a rap album in 1993. His song, “Must Be the Money!” hit the top ten charts all across America, and the money just kept coming in. But despite all his success, his life was out of control. Ten minutes after buying a brand new $275,000 Lamborghini sports car, he realized he was still desperately empty, searching for answers in all the wrong places. Deion tells his story in his gripping autobiography, “POWER, MONEY, & SEX – How Success Almost Ruined My Life”. I have been tremendously blessed by Deion’s story. Below are some portions of it. Please take time to read them. I strongly believe that Deion’s story will bless you too especially if you are a man.

“I learned a lot from my fathers, especially from the things they did wrong. My biological father used drugs and my step-father used alcohol.”

“To this day I’ve never messed with either of those and I never will.”

Page 17, paragraphs 5 & 6



“Now that I’ve been through major changes in my life, I realise that it’s very hard for people who grow up without a father they can count on to trust in the Lord. If their earthly father let them down, then they have a hard time believing that their Heavenly Father will do any better.”

Page 72, paragraph 5


I tried everything. Parties, women, buying expensive jewellery and gadgets, and nothing happened. There was no peace. I mean I was playing great. Each time I would turn on the TV I could see myself on three or four commercials. At one time I think I was on five different commercials at the same time. You see yourself, the kids see you, you’ve got all this media attention and everything the world has to offer, but no peace, no joy, just emptiness inside.”

Page 86, paragraph 3



I’ll see a beautiful woman who was a challenge and I’d end up conquering her and I’d say to myself, Aw, man, this is not it! I’d go to Hollywood and hang out with celebrities and actresses I knew out there, and I’d conquer them…. Next thing I knew I’d be lying up in bed with two, three, four women, and realizing, I’m just getting farther and farther away. And this is definitely not it.”

Page 87, paragraph 2


“I was struggling with just about everything in my life. My attorney, Eugene, could see what I was going through and he tried to help as much as he could, but I was so disappointed and disturbed by the way things were falling apart that I wouldn’t listen to his advice most of the time. He talked about his faith, how Jesus gave his life purpose, and things like that, but I wasn’t ready to receive any of that.”

Page 92, last paragraph


“I was lying there in bed about four o’clock in the morning when I was awakened by these awesome lights in my room…. Before long it was silent and the lights disappeared, and later that night I got up and opened my Bible to a passage that said, “If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” That’s Romans 10, verses 9 and 10. I knew they were meant for me and at that precise moment I was delivered.”

Page 99, paragraph 2 & 3


“I knew more than anything that I couldn’t leave the women alone right then, so that’s what prolonged it. But I made the cardinal mistake of trying to get myself together before I went to the Lord. You can’t do that; you have to go to Him to get yourself together.”

Page 104, paragraph 3


“I was so naïve about spirituality at that time that I thought I had to play with the Lord around my neck, like I had Him on a chain! So I played every game with that chain hanging around my neck. But I always knew I needed a relationship with God. My mother and grandmother made sure I understood that I needed God in my life. But I wasn’t living it. I just didn’t know how to make the move to the next level.”

Page 110, first paragraph


“You see, money just allows you to become who you really are. The more money you have, the freer you are to be who you are inside…. Money magnifies your personality and enhances who you are inside.”
Page 117, paragraph 3


“Once I began my walk and started coming closer to the Lord, I realized that those three things – power, money and sex – are very powerful and that they have two sides. I had seen one side up to that point. Now I needed to see the other side. God was doing a work in my life, and He was just about to turn on the Light.”

Page 118, last paragraph


“When you grow up, a young black kid like I was, and everybody starts talking about you, calling you Mr. Sanders, and telling you how good you are, man that can go to your head. Pretty soon you start to think that you’re somebody. But you’re nobody until you’ve got a greater purpose in your life, and I found out that you can never have that kind of purpose until you know God. I learned my lesson the hard way. Unfortunately, some people will go through hell before they realize that’s the truth.”

Page 120, paragraph 3


“You can spend ten years of your life in a relationship with a woman and still be lonely. Then who are you going to cry to? You were there for your wife and family to cry on. You were there for your children and your parents to cry on because you supported them. You were there for your friends to lean on. But who is there for you? No one. Because no one knows what you’re feeling inside.”

Page 121, paragraph 4


“From time to time people will tell me that I’m a role model for their kids. But that disturbs me. I don’t think mums and dads should encourage their young people to look up to athletes and celebrities as role models. I don’t even like the term ‘role model’ because that’s exactly what it is: a model playing a role. Chances are that your child is only going to see me for three hours on a Sunday afternoon, or in some commercial or endorsement I might do on TV. He may see me doing some interview after the game, or hear something I’ve said on a radio show, but I’m not going to be there to take him to school or help him with his homework.”

“I’m not going to provide for him or teach him right from wrong. That’s a job only his parents can do. I recognize that I have a responsibility, not only to baseball and football fans around the country but to the Lord, and that I am to say and do things that young people will see and admire and try to emulate. But my first responsibility is to my own kids. So I try to put everything in its proper perspective.”

Page 122, paragraphs 3 & 4


“You know if I had come out as a Buddhist or a Muslim or as a follower of any other religion in the world, nobody would have said a thing. But when I take a stand for Jesus Christ, some people just go crazy. But the only reason is that they don’t believe. They don’t want what I have to be true, because if it’s true they’ll have to admit that their own lives are all messed up and they need to make some changes.”

“When I was in the world I attracted who I was. It was always the fun, sexy, party people. Now I’m attracting people who love the Lord and recognize that God always comes first in my life. And that’s what they want, too. When I go to dinner with a woman now, I put Matthew, Mark, Luke and John right between us! And when we go through all those books, we know how to Acts!”

Page 126, paragraph 3 & 6


“You know, it’s stressful to live a lie. It works you to death. That’s what causes batteries to go dead, because they have no power beyond themselves. They can give off a little energy for a while and the light may shine momentarily, but before long things starts to go dim because they’re not hooked up to anything lasting. If you want to keep on burning, then you need to get plugged up to something bigger and stronger than you are.”

Page 132, last paragraph


“When your energy is depleted your first reaction is to start changing things: changing cars, changing jobs, changing neighbourhoods, changing relationships, changing this and that, because you’re desperate and looking for answers in all the wrong places. Before long you are trying things you said you would never try. You’re reaching out to people you said you’d never be with. You’re dialling those old phone numbers, replaying those old memories, and you’re holding on things you thought you would never touch because you’re running out of power and you’re desperate.”

“Through his counselling with men and women Bishop (T.D. Jakes) has found out that every man has got to have someplace he can go and fall apart. You need to have someplace where you can just go and say, “I’m at the end of my rope; I am running out of strength. I need to be refuelled so I can powerful publicly. I need someplace where I can go and strengthen myself so that when the trumpet blows I’ll be ready for the next show.”

Page 133, paragraphs 3 & 4


“God wants to hook you up so that you can be man of power. He wants you to have power, but it has to come from appropriate places. He just wants to deliver you from imitations of life. God doesn’t mind you having things. He minds things having you.”

“God will bless you the day he can trust you. If He can’t trust you, you’ll get so caught up in the things he gave you that you’ll forget who gave them to you. Isn’t that right? Just breathe in. Take a deep breath. Who do you think gave you that breath? If he didn’t let you, you couldn’t catch your breath. If God didn’t love you and help you, you couldn’t take one more breath of air.”

Page 135, paragraphs 2 & 4


“When teaching is real and true, it can also be very personal and painful. I feel that myself when Bishop teaches on the basic conflicts that happen when there is infidelity in a marriage. Some folks have done things that cause their mate to loose respect for them. Now, you can’t walk in and beat on your chest and demand what you’ve already forfeited. You can’t expect a wife to love a man who’s been messing with some other woman or doing things behind her back and acting like it’s okay because he deserves it! She’s not buying any of that, and she’s not going to give him the respect and appreciation he wants when he’s been cheating and lying and going behind her back. She’s just not made that way.”

Page 138, last paragraph


“It takes time to build trust if there has been infidelity in a relationship. And some of you need to realize that fact – particularly with women as it concerns adultery. You see, women define adultery as the epitome of betrayal. I think men have trouble understanding what that means to a woman.”

“Bishop observes that, biologically, men have a propensity to have their body in one place and their emotions in another. We don’t tend to get vulnerable about the giving of flesh. But when you start fooling with our hearts, now you’ve got tears in my eyes…. But the same way men whimper about somebody breaking their heart and trifling with their emotions, that’s how women feel when you take your body and share it with somebody else. And why shouldn’t she feel that way? She has a right. You promised to be faithful, didn’t you?

Page 138, paragraphs 2 & 3


“But nobody can fight with their hands tied behind their backs. I’ve been broke and had really hard times and I understand that. But maybe all your needs are met and you’re doing fine, so all this stuff about struggling just sounds alien to you. If that’s the case, then let me ask you something: For all you make, do you really have enough to show for it? Do you honestly believe that you’re all you were meant to be? And if not, why not?”

Page 144, last paragraph


“At this very moment God is watching you to see what you’re going to do with what he has given you. He gave you life. He gave you gifts. He gave you resources, family, children, and now He’s standing there watching you. He says, “Show me what you can do with that.” And you’re wasting time complaining, “I ain’t got enough help. I got to build a house and all I’ve got is these dumb trees!” You have to devise a plan – through prayer and meditation and thought – to decide what you’re going to do with what you’ve got.”

Page 146, paragraph 4


“No matter how virile or how spiritual you may seem to other people, in the back of everyone’s mind, to some degree, there is an innate interest in power, money and sex. One of the challenges for people who have come out of the world into the church is that they become a Christian and suddenly everything that was “normal” yesterday becomes taboo today.”

Page 153, paragraph 2


“The fact is, if you had a bunion on your foot before you got saved, as soon as you get home from church take your shoe off and see! That same old bunion is still there! You body has not received notification that you are saved, and when it does get the news it doesn’t like it…. You’ve been saved in you spirit and you’ve been changed in your mind, but your physical nature is yet to be changed. If it was changed you wouldn’t be tempted in that area, because it wouldn’t be there anymore.”

Page 154, paragraphs 3 & 4


“Most men are too quick on the draw. She has worked all day and she comes home and she’s got tricycles and homework and chicken dinner to make. So she’s supposed to go from being workhorse to a mommy to a nursemaid to a sex goddess in the course of two hours’ time? That’s quite a metamorphosis to make.”

“But one thing that makes it easier for her is if she’s reminded that beneath all these other tasks is a man who cares, who cares deeply and who stimulates her mind and emotions. He appreciates and affirms who she is and he shows genuine affection in little ways. He calls her now and then just to say, ‘Hi honey. I was just thinking about you, and I just wanted you to know that I love you.’ That what she needs to hear.”

Page 155, paragraphs 4 & 5


And this is my favourite portion of the book:

“One of the things that will always stop you from winning over sin is by focusing on it. You spend all your time concentrating on that one thing that you need to forget until it just drives you crazy. Let me tell you something: The best way to get loosed from sin is to get distracted by righteousness. Until all of a sudden you’re so caught up with what God is calling you to that you get the grace to leave what He’s calling you from. God never called a man from anything without calling him to something better.”

Page 158, last paragraph


“I try to be on guard at all times against the wiles of the devil because he knows me and he knows where all my doors and windows are. But I’ve taken away the welcome mat and Jesus is standing guard at the doors to my heart. I have passionate hunger for the things of God, and each day I’m feeding on His word. Jesus said, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled” (Matt. 5:6), and that’s how I want to be. I want more of what God has to offer, and He has graciously allowed me to have access to some mighty men of faith who make sure that I’m constantly filled with the world.”

Page 192, last paragraph


“Success almost ruined my life, but, thank God, I came to Him just in the nick of time. And that has made all the difference.”

Last page, last paragraph



If you’ve been blessed by Deion Sanders’ testimony, please encourage someone to read it also. Remain blessed.

Wednesday, 6 August 2008

PAUL – THE APOSTLE TO THE GENTILES


KEY VERSES:
“For me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labour for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far; but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body.” Phillipians 1:21-24 (NIV)


No person, apart from Jesus Himself, shaped the history of Christianity like the apostle Paul. Even before he became a believer, his actions were significant. His frenzied persecution of Christians following Stephen’s death got the church started in obeying Christ’s final command to take the gospel worldwide. Paul’s personal encounter with Jesus changed his life. However, he never lost his fierce intensity, instead it became an unshaken faith in Jesus Christ and from then on it was channeled for the gospel.

Until Paul’s conversion, little had been done about carrying the gospel to non-Jews. Paul worked hard to convince the Jews that Gentiles were acceptable to God, but he spent even more time convincing the Gentiles that they were acceptable to God. These he did sometimes at the risk of his life and those of his travelling companions but Paul was not a man to be stopped. He was never afraid to face an issue head-on and deal with it. However, in spite his strong personality, Paul always did as God directed.

Paul was a man who allowed his faith wings to fly to do exploit for the Lord. The lives Paul touched were changed and challenged by meeting Christ through him. His faith was active and greatly manifested in the way he lived his life and in the lives of others. At some point when he and Silas were put in prison, they prayed and sang hymns to God instead of fretting. The result? The jailer and his entire household were saved…”But at midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God and the prisoners were listening to them. Suddenly there was a great earthquake, so that the foundations of the prison were shaken; and immediately all the doors were opened and everyone’s chains were loosed. And the keeper of the prison…supposing the prisoners had fled, drew his sword and was about to kill himself…Then they (Paul & Silas) spoke the word of the Lord to him (the jailer) and all who were in his house…and he rejoiced, having believed in God with all his household.” Acts 16:25-27,32,34b (NIV)

When in prison at another point in time, he wrote the book of Philippians, a letter full of encouragement to the Philippian church and by extension, Christians today.
Does it then mean that Paul was happy or comfortable in times of trouble? Certainly not! But he allowed his faith in God manifest to encourage himself and others. Paul sums it all up himself this way in
2 Corinthians 6:4-10:
“…Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in everyway: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonment and riots; in hardwork, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speech and the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and the left; through glory and dishonour; bad report and good report; genuine yet regarded as impostors; known yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed; sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything…” (NIV)

THE ROMAN CENTURION


KEY VERSES:
“The centurion replied, “Lord, I do not deserve to have you under my roof. But just say the word and my servant will be healed. Matthew 8:8 (NIV)


One day, while Jesus was in Capernaum surrounded by a crowd, a Roman centurion walked up to him and asked for healing on behalf of his servant who by all indications may have been a Jew as the Jews at that time were under Roman rule. Jesus agreed to go with him and heal the servant who was down with paralysis, but the centurion’s reply, steeped in faith, astounded the Lord…”The centurion answered and said, “Lord, I am not worthy that you should come under my roof. But only speak a word and my servant will be healed. For I am also a man under authority, having soldiers under me. And I say to this one, ‘Go,’ and he goes; and to another, ‘Come,’ and he comes; and to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.” Matthew 8:8–9.

As a career military officer in the Roman army with control over hundred soldiers, and he himself being under authority, the Roman Centurion certainly understood hierarchy. Roman soldiers, of all people were hated by the Jews for their oppression, control and ridicule. Yet this man’s genuine faith amazed Jesus. This hated Gentile put to shame the stagnant piety of many of the Jewish religious leaders.

Jesus told the crowd afterwards that many religious Jews who should be in the kingdom would be excluded because of their lack of faith…”When Jesus heard it, He marveled, and said to those who followed, “Assuredly, I say to you, I have not found such great faith, not even in Israel! And I say to you that many will come from east and west, and sit down with Abraham, Isaac and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven. But the sons of the kingdom will be cast out into outer darkness. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.” Matthew 8:10.

The centurion could have allowed many obstacles stand between him and Jesus – pride, doubt, money, language, distance, time, self-sufficiency (afterall he wasn’t the one down with paralysis), power, race. But he didn’t let those barriers block his approach to Jesus. Instead, he stepped out selflessly in faith and not only received physical healing for his servant but spiritual healing for his own soul.



THE TRIO OF SHEDRACH, MESHACH AND ABEDNEGO


KEY VERSES:
“Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego replied, to the king ‘O Nebuchadnezzar, we do not need to defend ourselves before you in this matter. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it, and he will rescue us from your hand, O king. But even if he does not, we want you to know, O king that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.” Daniel 3:16–18 (NIV)


Friendships make life enjoyable and difficult times bearable. Friendships are tested and strengthened by hardships. Such was the relationship between three young Jewish men deported to Babylon along with Daniel. Shedrach, Meshach and Abednego help us think about the real meaning of friendship. As much as these friends meant to each other, they never allowed their friendship to usurp God’s place in their lives – not even in the face of death.

Together they silently defied King Nebuchadnezzar’s order to fall down and worship the image of gold or get thrown into the burning fiery furnace. They shared a courageous act when they reached this crossroad of faith. A small compromise would have allowed them to live and go on enjoying each other, serving God and serving their people while in this foreign land. But they were wise enough to see that compromise would have poisoned the very conviction that bound them so closely – each had a higher allegiance to God. So they did not hesitate to place their lives in the hands of God. The rest is victory…”Then Nebuchadnezzar went near the mouth of the burning fiery furnace and spoke, saying, “Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, servants of the Most High God, come out, and come here.” Then Shedrach, Meshach, and Abednego came from the midst of the fire. And the satraps, administrators, governors and the king’s counselors gathered together, and they saw these men on whose bodies the fire had no power; the hair of their head was not singed nor were their garments affected, and the smell of the fire was not on them.” Daniel 3:17.

Shedrach, Meshach and Abednego not only believed certain things about God and acted on them all of their lives; they believed in the omnipotence of God, that nothing was too hard for Him; and in the love of God that acts on behalf of the beloved…“If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it, and he will rescue us from your hand, O king.” Daniel 3:17. They also believed in the sovereignty of God, that he acts on the basis of his own pleasure and will...“But even if he does not, we want you to know, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.” Daniel 3:18.

Even with the heathen names given to them by Nebuchadnezzar – Shadrach, “command of Aku”, Meshach, “pagan name”, and Abednego, “servant of Nego” – expressing worship to heathen gods, the original identities of these Hebrew trio – Hananiah, “Jehovah is gracious”, Mishael, “who is like God”, and Azariah, "Jehovah has helped”, without doubt reinforced their faith in God above all else.


NOAH – A MAN OF RIGHTEOUSNESS

KEY VERSE:
“By faith, Noah built a ship in the middle of dry land. He was warned about something he couldn’t see, and acted on what he was told...” Hebrews 11:7 (The Message)


The story of Noah’s life involves not one, but two great and tragic floods. The
world in Noah’s day was flooded with evil. The number of those who remembered the God of creation, perfection, and love had dwindled to one. Of God’s people, only Noah was left. God’s response to the severe situation was to commission Noah to embark upon a 120-year-long boat project…”And God said to Noah, “The end of all flesh has come before Me, for the earth is filled with violence through them; and behold, I will destroy them with the earth. Make yourself an ark of gopherwood; make rooms in the ark, and cover it inside and outside with pitch...And of every living thing of all flesh you shall bring two of every sort into the ark, to keep them alive with you; they shall be male and female.” Genesis 6:13-14, 19.

It took persistent, consistent and absolute faith in the person and promise(s) of God for Noah to act out the instructions laid out to him by the Lord as regards building the ark and gathering and getting the animals on board in anticipation of the flood…”Thus Noah did; according to all that the Lord commanded him, so he did.” Genesis 6:22.

In his book, “The Purpose-Driven Life”, Rick Warren writes that, “There were three problems that could have caused Noah to doubt (God). First, Noah had never seen rain, because prior to the flood, God irrigated the earth from the ground up (…”For the Lord had not caused it to rain on the earth...but a mist went up from the earth and watered the whole face of the ground.” Genesis 2:5b-6.) Second, Noah lived hundreds of miles from the nearest ocean. Even if he could learn to build a ship, how would he get it to water? Third, there was the problem of rounding up all the animals and then caring for them. But Noah didn’t complain or make excuses. He trusted and obeyed God completely and that made God smile.”

Rick Warren writes further that: “It took Noah 120 years to build the ark. I imagine he faced many discouraging days. With no sign of rain year after year, (Noah) was ruthlessly criticized as a “crazy man who thinks God speaks to him.” I imagine Noah’s children were embarrassed by the giant ship in their front yard. Yet Noah kept on trusting the Lord.”

God certainly didn’t choose Noah randomly. For He knows whom He can count on to get things done – and it’s not necessarily the one with the most skill, talent, or social standing. Rather, it’s the one who daily walks with Him, the one who hears His voice and follows His lead. Noah was such a man. Noah was the only follower of God left in his generation. That is, he was the only man of faith in word and in deed in his own time.

Without doubt Noah had his own weaknesses and frailties…”And Noah began to be a farmer, and he planted a vineyard. Then he drank the wine and was drunk, and became uncovered in his tent.” Genesis 9:20-21. But he walked with God in faith, and it was that close walk that made him righteous before the Lord…”Noah was a just man, perfect in his generations. Noah walked with God.” Genesis 6:9b. Noah’s righteousness qualified him to be used by God to help save the human race from annihilation, and in the bargain God kept him and his loved ones from certain death. God also promised Noah:
”Then God spoke to Noah and his sons with him, saying:…”Thus I establish my covenant with you: Never again shall all flesh be cut off by the waters of the flood; never again shall there be a flood to destroy the earth…I set my rainbow in the cloud, and it shall be for the sign of the covenant between me and the earth…and I will remember My covenant which is between Me and you and every living creature of all flesh; the waters shall never again become a flood to destroy all flesh.” Genesis 9:8,13&15.